Discovry
1) What matters to me most?
Truth, values, family, and friends.
2)What are my most important values and how am I living in ways that are not aligned with my
values?
As of recently, there are quite a few things - how I act in relationships, obsessing and becoming zeroed in on the person.
My motivation, I've been so distracted by everything that I am or have done wrong it's hard to look up or see what's ahead
I have been trying to do God's job by force and manipulation
Disregarding warning signs and ignoring the laws bound in my heart
Giving up & Giving In
Ect...
3)What are my most important needs and desires? Does my present life fulfill them?
Healthy mind and body - speak life into others - a close relationship with God / My faith remains in his promises, I'm learning
4) What are the operating principles of my life?
Trust God even when all else don't make sense
Respect yourself and others
Give l o v e
Be humble
Never give up.
5) What is my life’s purpose?
This is a broad question... I've always wanted to inspire others to know who this God is... not so much Victoria, she is a mess
6)What are my personal gifts?
Communication - both talking and listening
7) Which three words describe me best?
Optimistic, analytical, spiritual
8) What’s one thing I would like to do more of and why? How can I make that happen?
Running/Writing - to just do it.
9) What’s one thing I would like to do less of and why? How can I make that happen?
Food - this is a million dollar question
10) What would I like to stop worrying about? What steps can I take to let go of the worry?
My future - by enjoying the present
10) How do I move past unpleasant thoughts or experiences?
By looking outside or at something I adore
11) When I’m in physical or emotional pain, what are some of the best things I can do for myself?
Yoga, for both
12) What’s keeping me awake at night?
Pre-workout
13) What drains my energy? How can I remove it from my life or protect myself from its negative effect?
Overthinking, 1 Peter 5:7
14) How do I feel about the pace of my life? Is it too fast, too slow, or just about right?
Too slow...and just right
15) How do I feel about my last mistake and what did I learn from it?
I am stronger than my beliefs and desires - self-control
16) Do I wait for others to solve my problems? Why is that?
Sometimes, I am afraid that I will make it worse
17) What makes me feel motivated, inspired, excited?
Witnessing growth
18) Am I holding onto something that would be better to let go of? What is it and what’s holding me back from letting go?
The desire for a relationship to be restored - my faith
19) Do I have unfinished business? With whom? What inner work needs to be done to heal this?
It's possible, I feel like I have let the past go for the most part.
20) What steps can I take to bring resolution?
Self-discovery surveys : )
21) On a scale of 1 – 10, where am I when it comes to being calm and centered in challenging situations? What do I need to do to have more peace in my life?
It varies on how much I care and the mindset that I am in.
22) In what areas of my life am I trading authenticity for safety, or what appears to be safety?
Ironically, how much I share on Instagram, I want to show so much more, however, it feels almost if I am guarding my heart
23) How am I censoring what I really think or feel?
Either I sugar coat it or exaggerate
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24) What holds me back from being more authentic?
That I am doing it wrong haha
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25) How much personal time do I need each week to function well and feel happy?
It has to be fairly balanced, also varies.
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What limiting beliefs impact my life in undesirable ways? What is the origin of each belief? Is each belief still true for me today? What positive beliefs would counterbalance each one?
How do I feel when I enforce my personal boundaries?
What’s behind my hesitancy to set personal boundaries, both in general and in particular situations?
How do I sabotage myself?
How do I feel about self-care and how does that effect the quality of my life? If you want to expand your self-care, check out: 15 of the Most Awesome Self-Care Gifts Ever.
In what ways do I feel responsible for everyone and everything? If you do, you might want to read: Do You Feel Responsible for Everyone and Everything?
How much do I trust myself? Do I listen to others more than myself?
How do I feel about getting quiet, listening deeply and patiently to my inner wisdom?
Do I hold back from asking the big questions? The hard questions? If so, what scares me?
How do I hesitate or refuse to take action on what my heart tells me? Read more: Are You Ready to Live a Heart-Centered Life?
In what ways is my self-acceptance conditional, dependent upon the validation of others or specific accomplishments? Learn: How to Accept Yourself No Matter What.
If I could change one thing in my life, what would I change and why?
Do I feel supported by my family or friends? Who supports me or who doesn’t?
Do I surround myself with mostly positive or mostly negative people? How does that work for me?
What are my favorite ways to take care of myself physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually?
How do I feel about my relationship with my body?
Do I feel comfortable expressing myself?
Do I feel seen, heard, and valued?
Do I have any regrets about my life so far? What changes can I make so I don’t continue to live with regrets? Here’s How to Avoid the Top Regrets of the Dying.
How do I feel about accepting my “negative” qualities? Am I able to accept my whole self?
What does my inner critic tell me? How does it stop me from moving forward?
What important needs do I have that aren’t getting met?
How do “shoulds” influence my choices rather than my own wishes and dreams? If you’re overcome by shoulds, here’s how to question them and take back your life.
What makes you feel most like yourself. Why?
Am I getting too caught up in other people’s problems?
What’s my biggest dream?